Physical activity has become an essential part of my routine. I no longer see it as a chore or something I “have” to do, but as a way to reset my mind and recharge my mental battery.
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For years, I powered through life, especially during my time on Wall Street. Stress was a constant companion, and my coping mechanisms weren’t exactly healthy. I wasn’t sleeping well or eating well, and it showed in my mental health. It wasn’t until later, especially after joining Calm, that I began to understand the profound connection between physical and mental well-being. Now, regular exercise has become a go-to strategy for managing stress and rebuilding mental resilience.
Initially, I was skeptical about exercise as a mental health tool. Like many, I viewed it primarily as a way to stay physically fit. My early attempts at incorporating exercise into my routine were half-hearted and inconsistent. I would go to the gym, do the same routines as everyone else, and wonder why I wasn’t feeling any better mentally. It felt like a chore, another item on my already overwhelming to-do list. I was doing it because I was “supposed” to be hopping on a treadmill.
The turning point came when I realized that, for me personally, variety was key. Doing the same workout day after day became monotonous and didn’t address the underlying stress I was experiencing. I started experimenting with different activities: golf, tennis, pickleball, and even just walking my dogs. I discovered that I enjoyed being social during my workouts; working out with a friend kept me motivated and made the experience more enjoyable. We have all heard about “accountability partners”—I look at it as just making sure I have a time and place to meet a friend to exercise.
Over time, physical activity has become an essential part of my routine. I no longer see it as a chore, or something I “have” to do but as a way to reset my mind and recharge my mental battery. Even short breaks throughout the day can make a significant difference. Instead of sitting through back-to-back Zoom meetings, I now make a point of getting up, stretching, or going for a quick walk outside. These brief moments of physical activity help me to be more thoughtful, present, and retain information better. I’ve built a buffer into my schedule so there are these pockets of time when I can get up and get moving.
Here are some of the ways I integrate this into my daily life because I now understand the benefits of exercise for mental health:
- Morning Walks: I often start my day with a walk with my dogs. It helps me clear my head and prepare for the day ahead. In my book, I about green space being restorative. It doesn’t mean you have to pack for an ashram and live in nature for a week—it can be as simple as stepping outside or opening your windows.
- Variety is Key: I get bored easily. I try not to stick to the same exercise routine every day. Some days I might go to the gym, while others I might play golf or tennis.
- Social Workouts: I prefer working out with a friend. It keeps me motivated and makes the experience more enjoyable. Those connections are like a boost of energy too—a way to keep loneliness at bay.
- Short Breaks: Throughout the day, I take short breaks to get up and stretch or go for a walk outside.
As someone in the tech space, the data from fitness trackers has also been incredibly helpful for me. I use my fitness trackers (I’ve tried a few) to count calories and monitor my sleep patterns. Seeing the impact of alcohol on my sleep, for example, motivated me to make changes to my lifestyle. I’ve even experimented with monitoring my glucose levels to better understand the impact of food and nutrition on how I feel.
I’ve learned that what works for one person may not work for another. It’s essential to find activities that you enjoy and that fit into your lifestyle. It’s also important to be patient and not get discouraged if you don’t see results immediately. Over time, regular exercise can become an invaluable tool for managing stress, rebuilding mental resilience, and improving overall well-being.
Ultimately, exercise is now more than just a physical activity for me. It’s a way to take care of my mind, recharge my mental battery, and lead a more balanced and fulfilling life. And leading by example, I hope to inspire others to prioritize their mental and physical health as well.
